I don't think you can do what you're attempting.
The tabs element on a List interface page was built for filtering different sets of records with the same data/fields in view. It was not built to see different data for the same set records.
Your only option would be to create (3) different pages on the interface.
I suggest you request this feature on the "Product Ideas" board if you want to see something like it available.
@lc_bos
As @Kenneth_Raghuna mentioned above, you can't do that with tabs.
However, there is a trick for doing this within one interface page if you are okay with using "record detail pages" instead of tabs.
@Kamille_Parks11 shows how to set this up on today's BuiltOnAir podcast episode.
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